Wednesday, August 24, 2011

of pears and prayers and one who cares...

Let me introduce you to Frieda...a wonderful woman that I have known almost as long as I can remember.

 
She loved to sing...and one of my earliest recollections of Frieda is of her singing in the church choir. Later I sang in that same choir with her for many years.

Jenny, Corrine, Steve, Kris and Mike ~ with Herman and Frieda

She was also a Sunday School teacher extraordinaire...and all my children had the privilege of being in her class when they were wee.

She loved children and they all loved Frieda.  Before she had grandchildren of her own...she borrowed our oldest on several occasions and babysat him while hubby and I led the youth group at church.  Later she watched our pre-school daughter many times, while I worked in the raspberry fields.  On one such occasion, I came to retrieve Heidi at the end of the day...and Frieda handed me a delicious pear loaf, fresh from the oven to take home for our dinner.  It was a pear loaf from a community church cookbook...one I also had at home, but had never tried.  The loaf was delicious!

Frieda also loved flowers and gardening...and for several years in a row she was a winner in  a local gardening contest...winning top spot in the 'most improved large garden' category. The photo above was clipped from the local paper in 1987...and waiting in my files for today!

Not one to be idle...Frieda has always been involved with the women's group at church...


...and has been one of our faithful 'blanket ladies' for many years. They give freely of their time and energy to make blankets for those in need around the world.

More significant than all the other things Frieda has done through the years...is that she is a woman of prayer!  Not only has she organized the prayer chain at church...she is always there if someone is in need of prayer.  Last week she assured me once again, that she prays for my family every day.  We should all have a Frieda in our camp!  The praying grandmas in my life have gone on to their reward...but Frieda is still here and praying faithfully.  How special is that?

Last week I pulled out the old community cookbook...the one with the pear bread that Frieda had baked for me some 30 years ago.  I decided I would bake a batch and drop off a loaf  for her. 



The loaves turned out just fine...and once they were fresh from the oven I brought Frieda a loaf.  She recalled baking the pear bread all those years ago and sharing a loaf with me..and was quite delighted to have the loaf returned after all these years.

Frieda is also a great encourager!  She reads 'My Front Porch' regularly and encourages me to keep writing.  She also follows Mennonite Girls Can Cook...and not only bought a cookbook but also came out to one of our book signings to show her support. 

Frieda has no idea I'm doing this post today.  Often in life we live with regret over the things we might have said or done and never did.  Frieda deserves to be thanked from the bottom of my heart for all she has meant to me and my family over the years.  I have an opportunity right here and now to do that...and so I am.

Thank-you, Frieda!

Edited to add: Who would have known that I chose Frieda's 87th birthday on which to publish this tribute to her?  I had no idea!

With love,

22 comments:

  1. What a lovely post about a lady who has made a great impression on lives around her.

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  2. You are lucky to have such a woman as Frieda in your life. She's an example to all of us, but most of all a wonderful support to you and your family. Well done - and perhaps a spur to the rest of us to do something similar.

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  3. What a beautiful tribute to a lovely woman who has positively impacted your life and the lives of many others! Thanks for sharing Frieda with us.

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  4. Oh Judy, what a lovely post about a lovely lady. I'm thinking the world would be a better place if we all had a Frieda in our life.
    What a great idea you had to make the pear bread for her.
    Great title for your post!!

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  5. And I feel lucky to know that I know Frieda from church. She's the kind of lady that inspires you and I bet Judy that she would even come out and play tennis with us...That's the kind of lady I would like to be.

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  6. How very wonderful to honor your dear friend Frieda. May God continue to bless her life...

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  7. A lovely tribute to your special friend!

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  8. Best wishes to Frieda who lives her life as a good example and friend and helper to many! This was a wonderful tribute to her, Judy. It is so nice you surprised her with this wonderful pear loaf, to remond he rof the one she once baked for you!

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  9. It's true Judy. sometimes getting in touch with a friend who has been an influence in our lives can bring a wealth of memories and Joy to both people. it's wonderful you chose to honour your special friend in this way. So many of us have a special "Frieda" we might contact. I only have to thumb through my handwritten recipe book to find these friends. it seems their recipes have become our favourite recipes as well.

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  10. You are so lucky to have such and wonderful friend and visa versa:):) May the years of love go on and on. Smiles, Susie

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  11. What a wonderful post. You are indeed blessed to have Frieda in your life. What a great lady! God bless her.

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  12. How very thoughtful to give a shout out to your friend. It is wonderful to have those kind of special friends who put others before themselves. She is lucky to have you as you are lucky to have her. V

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  13. what a beautiful story about this special women in your life ..you are Blessed for sure!!

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  14. What a kind, and so sweet tribute to a beautiful lady! Oh, that we would take more time to thank those who are so extra special to us in our journey of life. I am sure Frieda will be blessed so greatly with this wonderful post.

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  15. That is so sweet of you. I'm sure Frieda appreciates your love and thoughtfulness. You're lucky to have one another in your lives

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  16. I once told Frieda how I admired her beautifully intricate tatting - and she tatted some little items that are perfect as Christmas tree decorations, coasters, or mini-doilies. Thirty years later they are still being used. Thanks, Frieda! (although I still think of you as Mrs._____ rather than "Frieda")

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  17. God did! I loved reading this post and would love to be like such a dear lady. I'm not, but it would be terrific to be this kind of a person. Yes, we all need Friedas in our lives.

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  18. Such a pleasure to read a wonderful tribute to a wonderful friend. Too often we neglect to acknowledge those who have influenced our lives, and the lives of others.

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  19. Sing it with me:

    (to the tune of Our God is an Awesome God)

    Our God is a sneaky God, He plans cool things for our blogs...our families, friends He loves, our God plans good things for our blogs.

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  20. I heard all about your blog post before I even saw it on my computer! My mom had lunch with the birthday girl and they talked all about your post and how the timing was perfect! What a wonderful birthday gift. And I'm with Bev, Frieda is still Mrs.__________ to me too!

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  21. What a beautiful tribute to a very special woman!! And how amazing that you posted on her birthday - it was meant to be!

    And that pear loaf sounds yummy too!

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